This morning, my alarm went off as it does every weekday at 4:45am. If I don’t get up, roll out of bed and get my butt ready for the gym I will not make time for it later. It’s just a reality in my world. The simple act of getting my butt up in the morning and getting it done makes me feel accomplished and ready for the day. I wish I could put the fork down a bit more, but that’s a story for another day! As I’ve mentioned in prior posts, my husband is absolute gold. We are such a great team, and he always makes sure that I get whatever ‘me’ time I need. Whether that’s an extra long bath while I catch up on shows, a quick tanning session (I know, bad girl), or just peace and quiet while he keeps our kids entertained. I am truly grateful for the understanding that we have when it comes to my inner peace. I can’t speak for him, but I hope that I also give him what he needs for his.

This morning after my alarm when off, and I got myself ready for the gym I remembered that I forgot to fill my cup with ice water and put it in the refrigerator the night before. Obviously, this isn’t a big deal but I try to be as quiet as I can in the mornings since everyone else is asleep when I leave. I searched for my cup and couldn’t find it. I finally looked in the fridge and there it was… full of ice water. Frank got it ready for me the night before after I fell asleep. To some, this may seem like a trivial thing, but for me it meant so much. Having kids is hard. It’s extremely fulfilling most days, but there are many days where you’re just exhausted/frustrated/infuriated… you name it! I was having one of those overwhelming moments last night, and forgot a few steps in my nighttime routine after having a difficult time getting our son to bed. The simple act of literally filling my water cup made this morning a little less hectic for me, and it made my heart smile.

Yes, we argue and push each others buttons sometimes, but my point is this: do the little things! It’s those things that we miss in our day to day that can make the biggest impact on our relationships. Find out what works for you and your partner and do those things! Every relationship has needs and you have to work at it. Do the little things, because as time goes on you realize that they are the things your partner really needs. So dump the trash can, do a load of laundry, or fill their gas tank. Hell, literally fill their water cup! I am extremely grateful for my marriage, my kids, and our lives together. No, we aren’t perfect, but we are blessed.

Thanks for filling mine, babe!

Xo,

Marisa